I'd say keep 'em hidden for a while. I found the books by the Gottman's to be really good if she's willing to go through some of those exercises with you. I also liked Mort Fertel's marriage fitness. He pretty much just cherry-picked a bunch of stuff from others, but I think he's pretty heartfelt and the book made sense to me. Might not for everyone, though.
Just curious, but have you read the 7 Habits of Highly Effective People? Just reading it again after a loooong time. Many of the principles that underlie DR and DB are the same.
LA -- is that LA or Louisiana?
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
