I'll think about doing that... will see how things go. I've stopped initiating anything as part of detaching and just backing way off - but might be a good time to try it. ST I like your suggestion if he is not interested!
Talked to H earlier and he may still be able to make it to MC today - he's trying to get out of work that early but not sure if he can (depends on how long their meeting runs). He won't know until right before. Which has me all anxious again - heart pounding, worrying about another bomb. Trying to shake it off though. I didn't even tell him how it made me kinda anxious but he seemed to know - he said "I know it's really unfair to you to not know if I'm going or not. If you want I'll just say now that I won't be there, but if you're ok with it I'd rather try to get out early and make it."
I am still floored at how badly he wants to go.. seeing that as a good sign.
Deep breaths...
Glad I get to do a little outfit shopping before the MC, should help take my mind off things.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
