Aren't I supposed to be going dark? Plan B and all that?

He told my mom this morning that while there was a small chance he could change his mind, he didn't feel like that was the direction he was headed.

Maybe I don't understand what it is to "go dark"...

Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing