It is so easy to just believe the good; thinking that has burned me already. When you start doing the helpful "more of the same" behavior, you can expect some cynicism from WAS. And that form of giving really needs to come from a place where it is given without expecting anything in return. Expecting reciprocity now can only lead to frustration or worse because your partner is not operating from the same mindset.

I know what you mean about thinking you have an undeniable connection.

Keep the PMA, your H won't get his back without yours being the beacon to bring him home.

Me 40
W 38
S 4
M 7.75
ILYBNILWY 6/8/07
"do not want to be your W" 6/16/07
DB'ing 6/30/07

1st M 6 yrs; she was my first WAW

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