My ride on the Roller Coaster called WAW Hell

[dlt1]

Hey Steel, agree you should let it slide for a bit. The only thing you'll be pushing is W away. My C gave me my 1st feedback today. Basically keep working on spending easy time together. She put in a diff perspective:
"It is as if you are just dating again. You would not begin the process by delving into deep convo's about emotions. You are more likey to talk about what she's been up to at work, how nice/bad the weather has been, what new movies are coming out. You have to find what you like about each other. Then, you can begin addressing past issues that got you here, and how you will work to avoid making the same mistakes."
You have to rebuild the bridge before you can look at the deep stuff underneath.
I asked C if she had heard of DR book. She had not, but then proceeded to suggest the same course of db'ing action! Really helped me to believe in it.