I would leave it alone for a while, a week? Then come back to it ever so gently given she proposed it initially. Did you have a good tone when you asked?
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.