My ride on the Roller Coaster called WAW Hell

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OK I have a delimma.
Things have been very good. I don't have any complaints about how W is acting or saying at the moment. There have been a few small flare ups, but all of them were resolved (to my knowledge) at the time they occured. She seems much more open and willing to discuss things as they occur.

But it is beginning to eat at me that she has not made an appointment with the C. She is the one that called and asked if I would be willing to go with her, almost 3 weeks ago. I'm starting to think that she believes we will be able to work through this by ourselves. I KNOW BETTER.

I asked about it once last week, and then yesterday. I'm not going to ask again for fear of making her feel pressured, but SH*T she is the one who initiated this. It doesn't seem like she is hesitant regarding anything else.
I'm confused. Could it be that she is working on everything regarding the present and trying to avoid the past?

Anyone have some insight?