Did you intentionally wait till today to tell him with the idea that if you did he would not be able to go?
Hi CVA- He was with me when I made the appointment at the last session, and he knows that I want him to be there. I had made the decision (wrote about it earlier in the thread) that I didn't want to pressure or push him to go to C. When he called me earlier today, I asked if he had heard what I said about the appt this morning (sometimes I just cannot stop my big mouth!), he said he had but he wasn't sure if he's be going. Ugh.