Happy to hear that the communication from W has stepped up. Like H said babysteps. Sounds like you have one heck of weekend coming up. Enjoy yourself, you deserve it.
Yes, contact between me and her has got much more frequent. I think that is indicative of how things have at least got a bit better. Yeah, I have been looking forward to this weekend for awhile. I will get to see a bunch of the old guys from college which is always a good time.
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I have to laugh at all of you boys on here losing weight, I think its great for you all BTW...Since the separation I have been on an "anti-diet" no excercise, Ben & Jerry's, fast food. I have managed to gain 5lbs and look a lot healthier...at least none of my friends are trying to have anorexia intervention anymore lol.
From what you went through, it is a good thing to put on a few pounds, and it is understandable that you acted the way you did with the things your H said to you. At the point where we are all at it is important that we become healthy both mentally and physically. Whether that means losing weight (in most of the guys' instances) or gaining weight (your situation) getting healthy is the main thing.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1162413&page=2#Post1162413 M-28 W-28 Together 10 years Married 2 years No children Things started taking a turn in 01/07
