It does stink, but it's really no worse than the A/OM in the first place. Of course, I know kid issues are particularly sensitive. Though I haven't completely moved on, it has helped me put thoughts of A and OM out of my mind to say to myself, I cannot control her. She makes her choices and will have to live with those and herself. All I can do is control me and my reactions.
Hang in there buddy. It gets easier.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link