Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

My wife says she is very happy being separated but is giving it a month of no contact to see if she misses me. If she is so happy being separated I have little hope that being apart will change her mind. My fear is that I will never have the chance to prove that our relationship can be different now that I have made drastic changes in my behavior. All she remembers is being unhappy before our separation. She says she can see I am different but occasionally she still brings up things that made her unhappy in the past. She says "Why should I try to see if I can be happy with you when I am happy being by myself." It appears she is ready to move on and I'm wondering if there is anything I can do other than leave her alone and hope she changes her mind. As most of you probably know it is an unbearably helpless feeling.