yeah WE don't think it's that "big of deal" just like Ms Hdog doesn't think not making love is that "big of deal." We all have different priorities, opinions, interests, needs, etc. and just brushing someone else's concerns aside as not a big deal usually doesn't help things resolve in a good manner. That's a big communication problem that I don't think gets resolved by Hdog just ignoring his wife's issues. I don't mean that he has to treat her issues as reality. I just think that trying to listen to her would create a better environment for their marriage.
Problem here is Fearless, Mrs. HD makes the decisions on everything. And she knows it.
And Hdog contributed to this situation as equally as she did.
Hdog, do you tend to ask her "permission" and does she tend to just TELL you what she's doing? Did you and she make the decision about the puppy or did you just let her do it?
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus
