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My H is the youngest of 11...he's the baby and now he's definately acting the part.

11 kids, oh my....his poor mom... Let me guess she was/is a very giving and compassionate woman? That combined with the fact that your H had 10 older siblings he pretty much got everything he wanted handed to him? Is he really just reverting back to his adolescents ways? BTW, how insensitive of you to not let him have OW and you at the same time. Has he asked you to move in with them yet?(I hope my sarcasm comes across..) Knowing what he did is wrong and not getting his way it is no wonder why he is miserable.

I have read that during a crisis people sometimes revert back to their former self(I think this is the case for our S's), even though they grew out of it by the time of a crisis. I guess this might be why people in a MLC seem to replay their younger self. It seems odd to the sane, but for them it seems like a safe place to be.

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oh that's right, H is so much smoother, he just picks women up in bars.

I bet your H's OW fell for this line: "Your feet must be tired." OW - Why? "Because you have been running around my head all night long." Yep, that is the one that got her. Damn he is smooth. If you get a chance can you ask him to give me some oh so smooooooth lines like that....