Problem here is Fearless, Mrs. HD makes the decisions on everything. And she knows it.l
HD, I would say that I hope she understands and this is something that you really want to do...so much that you will not spend on something this month or maybe make more with your 2nd job to pay for it...go for it. And when she was buying those bottles of wine...the cost was alot more than that...I know...LOL.
I just don't think it is a big deal...if it were a great deal of money or put me in a pinch, then perhaps...we all need to have some sort of diversion from time to time.