I would be even happy if my H would be dealing with me as a friend as he talks more to our friends then he ever talked to me. He would talk to them the whole time at a party but never ever said one word to me.
Be an unconditional friend. Don't expect anything in return. It will mean less if they think you are trying to manipulate them because you want something. Also, if you manage expectations (as in don't have any), you will not be as disappointed.
Kelley, you can still be a friend to H even if he is not returning it now. Just do what you can. And don't get sidetracked because he isn't meeting your needs right now. He can't. Not yet.
Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
