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Jeanette!

I LOVE this thread..Good job, girlfriend..

hmm...what do I want?

Well I read somewhere that you have to visualize what you want not just talk about it. And, I realized that I very rarely visualize what I want so I will give it go..

Now, I will be bullet iteming AND visualizing this at the same time..multi-tasker that I am.. ;\)

I want:

to maintain the peace I have found in my life
for my kids to be happy and healthy
to be a terrific college professor and make a difference
to open up my own business being an academic coach for kids
to keep a positive mindset
to take NOTHING for granted
to be enjoy my friends and family
to be grateful for my new R with XH
to be remain thankful for my wonderful R with New Guy

and most of all..

to figure out why my wacky Siamese cat keeps bringing me barbies in the middle of the night..


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Sweetpea...I loved what you wrote!! Yes, God has a plan for us everything is filtered for a reason. Patience & Understanding! We are learning patience -n- understanding, let's hope those around us learn to be patience and understanding with US while we figure this all out! (if we ever do)

myturnnow!! Thanks!

Wow! I don't think I visualize what I want either...perhaps thats why I'm stuck in a hole. I have a foggy picture of what/where I want to be...it's the getting there.

I think for me, before I can truly visualize what it is that I am searching for.....I need to fully ACCEPT what has happened in the last two years. I don't think I have accepted it. Uhm, I know that I haven't accepted it. I think I'll have the Serenity Prayer tattoo'd on the palm of my hand!!!

I'll start small with the first thing I want....but it's the one thing that I'll never have THE TRUTH! That is what I struggle with. We've all heard that THE TRUTH shall set you free......damn! It's a vicious little circle eh? LOL...If i get the truth, I will learn acceptance, but I will never get the truth so I will have to learn acceptance the hard way! Crud.

I know why your whacko kitty is bringing you barbies!!!! YAY!! I can give you one thing you want...your siamese kitty wants
A FRIEND to play with at night


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I want to win the lottery!!

I want my children to be happy.

I want my Husband to love me.

I want my business to grow.

I want to lose 25 more pounds.

I want OW to move to Alaska!!and fall in love with an eskimo!


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Quote:
and most of all..

to figure out why my wacky Siamese cat keeps bringing me barbies in the middle of the night..


OK that made me giggle \:D



I want:

* my marriage & friendship restored
* my children to be happy, carefree and not mouthy
* my bills paid on time, decreasing rapidly in amounts due LOL
* the om to run away or quit the job
* to win the lottery - or at least a small lottery that would pay off the house ;\)
* people to respect other's privacy and not gossip
* to lose 10-15 lbs
* my H to know he is all I really want and for him to believe it's true

that's all I got so far...

However I'd like to add one about my crazy cat....

I want to understand what "meow" means......she's anti-social 90% of the time, but when I'm getting ready in the mornings she's right there, meow-ing at me all morning long!! I ask what, she says "meow".....I put water in the sink for her, she says "meow"

I just wanna know what she wants


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Originally Posted By: *KS*Chick*


I want to understand what "meow" means......she's anti-social 90% of the time, but when I'm getting ready in the mornings she's right there, meow-ing at me all morning long!! I ask what, she says "meow".....I put water in the sink for her, she says "meow"

I just wanna know what she wants


LOL.....ok, I wanna know what Meow means too! My new little kitty does the same thing. She has food, water, toys...but in the morning....and only the morning....she stares at me and
meowwwwwwwwwwwww I understand my dogs....but the kitty?????


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LOL it's nice to know I'm not alone


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Originally Posted By: Jeanette1120
Originally Posted By: *KS*Chick*


I want to understand what "meow" means......she's anti-social 90% of the time, but when I'm getting ready in the mornings she's right there, meow-ing at me all morning long!! I ask what, she says "meow".....I put water in the sink for her, she says "meow"

I just wanna know what she wants


LOL.....ok, I wanna know what Meow means too! My new little kitty does the same thing. She has food, water, toys...but in the morning....and only the morning....she stares at me and
meowwwwwwwwwwwww I understand my dogs....but the kitty?????


We've got a new kitten that does the same thing in the mornings. I too understand my dogs, but the cat is a whole other story.

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Luna (my cat)

meows at me in the morning too. (sigh)

I think they are just saying goodmorning.


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Originally Posted By: Lissie
Luna (my cat)

meows at me in the morning too. (sigh)

I think they are just saying goodmorning.



Ok then. Why do they have to say it over and over and over???


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Maybe they want to be sure that you are hearing them????

As in: DO NOT IGNORE ME.

Cats are like that....


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July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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