Well I read somewhere that you have to visualize what you want not just talk about it. And, I realized that I very rarely visualize what I want so I will give it go..
Now, I will be bullet iteming AND visualizing this at the same time..multi-tasker that I am..
I want:
to maintain the peace I have found in my life for my kids to be happy and healthy to be a terrific college professor and make a difference to open up my own business being an academic coach for kids to keep a positive mindset to take NOTHING for granted to be enjoy my friends and family to be grateful for my new R with XH to be remain thankful for my wonderful R with New Guy
and most of all..
to figure out why my wacky Siamese cat keeps bringing me barbies in the middle of the night..
Sweetpea...I loved what you wrote!! Yes, God has a plan for us everything is filtered for a reason. Patience & Understanding! We are learning patience -n- understanding, let's hope those around us learn to be patience and understanding with US while we figure this all out! (if we ever do)
myturnnow!! Thanks!
Wow! I don't think I visualize what I want either...perhaps thats why I'm stuck in a hole. I have a foggy picture of what/where I want to be...it's the getting there.
I think for me, before I can truly visualize what it is that I am searching for.....I need to fully ACCEPT what has happened in the last two years. I don't think I have accepted it. Uhm, I know that I haven't accepted it. I think I'll have the Serenity Prayer tattoo'd on the palm of my hand!!!
I'll start small with the first thing I want....but it's the one thing that I'll never have THE TRUTH! That is what I struggle with. We've all heard that THE TRUTH shall set you free......damn! It's a vicious little circle eh? LOL...If i get the truth, I will learn acceptance, but I will never get the truth so I will have to learn acceptance the hard way! Crud.
I know why your whacko kitty is bringing you barbies!!!! YAY!! I can give you one thing you want...your siamese kitty wants A FRIEND to play with at night
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
I want OW to move to Alaska!!and fall in love with an eskimo!
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
to figure out why my wacky Siamese cat keeps bringing me barbies in the middle of the night..
OK that made me giggle
I want:
* my marriage & friendship restored * my children to be happy, carefree and not mouthy * my bills paid on time, decreasing rapidly in amounts due LOL * the om to run away or quit the job * to win the lottery - or at least a small lottery that would pay off the house * people to respect other's privacy and not gossip * to lose 10-15 lbs * my H to know he is all I really want and for him to believe it's true
that's all I got so far...
However I'd like to add one about my crazy cat....
I want to understand what "meow" means......she's anti-social 90% of the time, but when I'm getting ready in the mornings she's right there, meow-ing at me all morning long!! I ask what, she says "meow".....I put water in the sink for her, she says "meow"
I just wanna know what she wants
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
I want to understand what "meow" means......she's anti-social 90% of the time, but when I'm getting ready in the mornings she's right there, meow-ing at me all morning long!! I ask what, she says "meow".....I put water in the sink for her, she says "meow"
I just wanna know what she wants
LOL.....ok, I wanna know what Meow means too! My new little kitty does the same thing. She has food, water, toys...but in the morning....and only the morning....she stares at me and meowwwwwwwwwwwww I understand my dogs....but the kitty?????
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!
I want to understand what "meow" means......she's anti-social 90% of the time, but when I'm getting ready in the mornings she's right there, meow-ing at me all morning long!! I ask what, she says "meow".....I put water in the sink for her, she says "meow"
I just wanna know what she wants
LOL.....ok, I wanna know what Meow means too! My new little kitty does the same thing. She has food, water, toys...but in the morning....and only the morning....she stares at me and meowwwwwwwwwwwww I understand my dogs....but the kitty?????
We've got a new kitten that does the same thing in the mornings. I too understand my dogs, but the cat is a whole other story.
BFM
There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections