I understand Henrik. I would suggest you both get to a marriage counselor.

This is not something you should be trying solo - it's a hard road and you will encounter many speedbumps \:\(

Take time, breathe, pray and try to be calm.....you will have flare ups and days that are horrible.

....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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