The "houseguest" was my ex husbands friend from work. She and he had known eachother for quite awhile before we met and she needed a place to stay during her break up with her bf. I agreed to let her in the house, but it was a HUGE mistake as she caused a big rift between my ex and I. I think they just got too close and she was always there to bad mouth me to him.
This is what caused me to turn to my co-workers and ultimately my bf. He is in very serious financial trouble, so he is not financially solvent at the moment....
Thank you so much for your kind words...it helps a lot...
again - might've already been addressed...but here goes.
Do you throw this houseguest up to your H a lot - like you bring it up here? This person might've been an issue but she didn't destroy your marriage. Yes - he shouldn't have been talking to her about the things he was, but you also shouldn't have been having an EA. See where this is going? If you're going to throw the past in his face, he will in yours as well.
I guess the physical affair - people have different POV's on that. If he filed, you still weren't divorced.
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