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My husband subscribes to the "marriage builders" techniques of allowing him total access to everything I do, including my finances.


This may already have been addressed - I'm only on page 1 of 6 ;\) but this should also be applied in reverse - if you have to be 100% open with everything, he should offer you the same courtesy. That is what I struggle with right now in our R.


....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am
I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon
~ Avril Lavigne ~
..."Nobody's Fool"...

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