Quit answering phone calls and emails so quickly. Be perfectly pleasant, nice, positive and upbeat when you do interact, but she will likely move your way more when she starts to get the idea that you really might not be there for her. As long as she knows you are waiting at her feet/doorstep/something like that, she is unlikely to reinvest. Why would she? She doesn't have to.
I think that this may be what my W is experiencing now, at least I hope so.
Me:38 W: 35 Married 11 years 2 daughters ages 7 and 3 D filed by her [url]http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1143353&page=2#Post1143353[/url]