Nikki, yes, definitely hoping their Piecing works. I think the big thing for them is that he was always spending money, she was always fighting it and they fought for 15 years. I'm sure she was exactly the typical WAW. But he's since said he's done with fighting and she says he's better-in whatever way that is- and she didn't like being alone.
I know your H had mentioned the financial thing, just like this lady mentioned not liking being alone. I think really that's just part of the whole equation. There's more to it. It really can't be just that. AND the other thing is that they had fallen out of love for us, and their gaining that back. So in a way, right now they don't have that full fledged love they might have had in the beginning. It's not going to be the same as in the beginning because that's the "feelings", those new exciting feelings being with someone new and falling in love. They've already been there with you, so this time while it is somewhat similar, because it's like your dating all over again, it's still different, and their going to GROW to love you again.
Does that make sense? didn't mean to post that on my thread instead of yours.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
