Okay, to summarize:

1. Consider newcomers forum as a good place to stick a miscellanous thread about my miscellaneous situation.
2. Re-read DR's infidelity chapter (I have to find my copy of it first).
3. Look for solutions, and maybe be open to the idea that he is struggling, too, and hear him if and when he expresses that.

Thanks - I appreciate it.

P.S. I love watching you and Sunny talk!


One moment of patience may ward off great disaster. One moment of impatience may ruin a whole life.