My birthday was on Tuesday and no birthday wish from H. H did call me about some financial stuff he is supposed be handling while we have been separated but that's it.
I was off work Mon, Tues, and Wed. On Monday H called my work number and left me a message telling me to mail him the papers regarding our loan. He was supposed to pick them up over the weekend and never did. I thought it was strange that he didn't call my cell as he usually does.
Then the phone call on Tuesday. I let it go to VM and he had asked me to call him within 30 minutes of getting message. I figured it was about the financial stuff he was taking care of so I called him back 10 minutes later. What H told me was something he could have left on the VM. Nothing major and no acknowledge of my birthday.
I'm beginning to think H is being passive/agressive with me right now. I've seen him do it to friends and relatives in the past. He's the tit for tat kinda person. You hurt me or make me mad then I'm going to do the same to you. Or he tries to get the upper hand.
Sorry to be rambling, I guess I just needed to vent.
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years