I told my friends/co-workers my H's "complaints" I didn't cook enough, clean enough,etc.
My H's biggest "complaints" were that I was too picky of an eater, wasn't a very good cook, and that he didn't like the way my parents treated us vs. my sister and her husband. I'm the middle child and I'm fine with the way they treat me...they just didn't ooh and ahh over him like he wanted. Neither of these things changed since H and I started dating when I was 16. He knew what he was getting into...now 11 years later...I'm impossible to live with. Amazing how that all happened after we couldn't get pregnant for all those years and he stumbled across OW. The only thing that she's got going for her is that she is "supposedly" a good cook. That should get her far in life...forget about morals or being kind and considerate...watch out she can cook.
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It's the fear of the unknown, but the marriages we had weren't healthy.
I definately have fear, but I agree that my marriage wasn't healthy. I need to work on understanding what a healthy relationship should be before I jump into something else...hopefully, it well help me avoid more heartache. I think that I let him control too much. I do believe that I am a great catch...I think I'll be okay just have to get past the fear.
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You are a wonderful inspiration. You give me hope.
Thank you. It means a whole lot to hear that everyone thinks I'm handling things the best that I can. We will get through this.
