Hope, You are doing a great job. When this first happened to me. I told my friends/co-workers my H's "complaints" I didn't cook enough, clean enough,etc. They were like oh my goodness, that could be me. In the world we live in now with both spouses working we can't be superwoman as well as suzy homemaker.
I keep thinking this is happening for a reason. I'm sure it is for you also. It's the fear of the unknown, but the marriages we had weren't healthy. I'd be lying if I said I don't have feelings still for my H, but it's for the H I married, not this new confused person.
You are a wonderful inspiration. You give me hope. So you can see your "new" name is fitting.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
