Mark, Thanks for the suggestions. I guess first I have to make it through the next 5 days. I plan on doing things w/kids. I also made a list to do while she is away. I cant help thinking about it. Im beside myself and feel sick to my stomach. This is a huge deal, we are not jet setters. I flew for the first time this year to Mexico w/w, she flew once when she was younger. I dont think she has even left Fargo yet. I am so discouraged.