Well I offered to take H to get his car at the shop today. It is an hour away, and he agreed. I actually am surprised his OW was ok with it, because she usually won't let him do anything like that. Today is his day with the kids, and I figured that if I didn't help him get his car, he would come up with excuse after excuse and by the time he did get his car it would be to late to see the kids. They really want to see their father.
But now I am kind of panicking. I think I will just play it off like he is a really good friend, and just keep everything very casual and pleasant. I think this will give me a chance for him to see some 180 behaviour, although I know he is still to deep in the fog for it to make a difference, but just maybe it will?
