Ali...I have never posted to you before but I was reading your story (I don't want to clean today) and it broke my heart. I don't know where in the midwest youare but there is a terrific place called the Alexander Center that is dedicated to treating children in trauma. I brought my son there when he was in 2nd grade and he was pulling his hair out and bangin ghis head saying that he was bad and things were all his fault etc....
We did a lot of treatment that did not involve drugs and they focused on all aspects of him (school, personal, family)
Your daughter is your concern, not your husband. You had the strength to go through this for this long....the strength to be your authentic self is inside you. It will be there when you need it.
