OK ladies I have a question for you because this is something I REALLY struggle with.
You may recall my wife wanted for us "to be friends again". Shoot I never realized we weren't until after we were separated but apparently that's how she felt. So I really struggle with the idea of just being friends and nothing more. It is so, so counter to my own belief system. This is the woman I fell in love with, dedicated my life to as a partner and spouse, built a family with and as a husband dedicated myself to providing for and caring for her.
But how can we be only friends or satisfied with that? I don't get it, I gave all my worldly existence to her and our family and now I am supposed to just toss most of that overboard? Why would I want to be or just settle with being friends with someone who has shown me just about the ultimate in rejection? Who turned her back and toss out all the good along with what she didn't like.
How can you be satisfied with just being friends?
Last edited by catfan; 08/02/0702:16 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
