Guess what I get for my birthday this year!! H is moving into a house with OW! Isn't that nice of him. The boys are very upset. S17 said he will NEVER go to the house. S20 says he has chosen her and her daughter over them again. I am just horribly sad and angry. Is this the answer to my many prayers?

I tried to explain to S20 that his dad is in the stage of a teenage kid and only thinking of what he wants at the time not the long-term effects of his decision. S20 made the observation the the skank acts like she is 17 and she was the only one around acting the same way as he was so that is why they are together. OW has always wanted to stay 17 so this is not new for her. I am sure this means another sports season with skank ho at every game again despite S17 asking her not to be and S20 despising her.

I have been praying for a man to be put in H's life who is a believer, so that he can guide H to God. I hope someone comes into his life soon before he completely loses his sons and marries her. I am just praying harder now. I don't know what else to do. I don't know how many more times my heart can be shattered by all of this.

Thanks for listening.

Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.