I've been to the mortgage people today to try & sort something out regarding the cash that W is wanting from the equity on the house. Anyway there is no way I can take out the extra to give her half of the equity. For my earnings I am already very close the max that I could borrow anyway. However, I can borrow a little more but I have to remortgage the property & to keep the payments what they are now I have to take a 40 year payment plan lol, can you believe that? 40 bloody years....
Well I have no option because as I knew, it costs more to rent a property than what I will be paying on this place..Secondly, I could'nt even use my equity towards a new home because no one will lend me enough money to buy anything, as the house prices are so high now. Basically I would have £25,000 & could borrow a max of £50,000. House prices here are £90,000 min...Is'nt the UK great?
Also, I got a txt message from W regarding my call last night, I told her I was filing asap if D is what she wants, of course she said it is. I did ask her if she wanted to come talk about getting it sorted out but did'nt really get an answer..Anyway she sent a txt message saying she does not want to come & talk about it as we'll both get upset???..Upset lol..I don't think so, i'm done with that crap...I sent a txt back stating that I understand her not wanting to come talk, but I had no intesion of talking about us. Only in the terms of how we can get the D sorted out asap & as easy as possible...I did'nt get a message back.
