From reading your sitch, it sounds like you really have improved "personally", and this nightmare you have lived in for the last 9 months has made you stronger.
Thanks Andy. I really appreciate the kind words. I do feel like I am a better person. There are definately things that I need to continue to work on, so I can be the best person that I can and move on to better things. They say whatever doesn't kill you makes you stronger...I'm still living, so I have to be stronger.
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I should really be thanking my W for making me see this, and giving me the opportunity to begin a new chapter in my life, possibly an even happier one. I hope you see this as an opportunity for yourself as well, you are still so young and have so much to look forward to.
I have a feeling in a year or so, I will be thanking my H also. Honestly, I am not that much unhappier right now than I was with my H. I would like to have someone to share my life with, but it is the not the be all and end all of life. I have never in my life just lived for myself. I have been living for H for the last 11 years...this is giving me a chance to find who I really am. I have been faced with more stuff in my 20's than a lot of people face in their entire lives. One of my good friends from work told me that my life is her worst nightmare. She didn't mean it in a bad way...I actually took it in a good way. If I can survive this nightmare, and she still wants to be my friend....I am doing good because she may have learned something from my mess and she definately has been there for me. In the end we are going to be the winners....we might not save our marriages...we might not get to be with our spouses...but we will be stronger, wiser, and better people. This sort of thing makes people bitter or better and all of us on hear are trying for better.
