Hey will, not a lot to add to nomo's post. All I will tell you is that 12 months ago my wife said that she is done and D is the only answer as well. She still has not filed yet. She has seen a lawyer, but has not filed yet.
As crazy as this may sound, I am actually ok with her filing for D today. Not what I want, but I have gotten myself to a place where I am ok even if she does.
It's all about time, attitude, and inner strength my friend.
By the way, Nomo is right. I remember telling him to lose the this sucks thing, you do the same for me. Everyone knows this is not fun, but it is what we make of it......
