But her whole it's over because I don't feel the spark and I can't feel the spark so it's over and you can't work at getting the spark because it might not come back because it's a spark and I don't feel that spark "logic" is really starting to pi . . . er, aggravate me. Lock that thought in a box and throw away the key.
Heimlich, I haven't been doing the DBing for as long as you, but my wife has almost the same issue with the 'spark'. Last time we were discussing the R, she had no interest in doing anything about encouraging that spark. Thought it should should just be there and / or come naturally. I was just thinking how difficult it is to get that spark going if you keep dumping water on it. Oh, well.
Last night was a decent night for us as far as talking and physical contact in general. We still sleep in the same bed, so that's a positive, but I guess I need to prepare myself for the potential downslide and take things one step at a time. I'll be going out drinking with a friend tonight, so I'm looking forward to that. It'll be good to get away and maybe have her wondering for a change.
Looks like we have a lot in common as far as the ages, kids, etc. We have a girl and boy ages 8 and 5. I thought it was a seven year itch. I thought it would be pretty solid making it past ten years.
