Alimari, hey listen, you did nothing wrong. You can look back and know you did everything to save your marriage with dignity. Now, you can act in a way to model to your kids how to handle a crisis. I do not know why your H is acting up now. There is no excuse but do not expect any apologies. Don't take what he said as an insult to you, it is about him. Above all, protect yourself immediately. Your daughter may have said what she said as a cry for attention especially since your H gets so much for negative behavior. He is acting like a child but do not tel him I said that because unlike a child a scorned husband can be more physically threatening even without provocation. Was he offended or drinking? It does not matter. Sometimes people blow up and have tantrums with those they feel safest with but he may be a bully and emotionally abusive. It is his issue, of course. You cannot cure him with your love. He may need real help and you know his track record. A lot of men wil not seek help but he will realize sooon what a devoted wife you have been. Whatever you do, we will not judge because we are all right behind you. Just stay safe from his anger. Show your kids your strength to survive this. Regarding the anniversary of Piecing notice how many of the bombs on these threads occur on an important date? Mine are Easter, 10th Anniversary and D6s Birthday. Cruel irony. Days we should be joyous and yet a cloud looms. You are not alone. You are our hero.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
