My Miracle will come....

[BeingMe]

It's a small man that will threaten his W, and talk to her in this manner in front of his daughter, when he is the one scr*wing around, and betraying not only his W, but his child too. You need to walk away from this man. Once threatened, abuse usually escalates, and they will always blame you for their actions, i.e. you were 'shouting' and 'you made me do it'. This and drug addiction is the only time I will actively encourage a person to leave the M, and run. Believe me, I know from bitter experience from my first M (thankfully, only 3 years long, and I left and never saw him again).

You have nothing to apologize for, and you owe your idiot H zero. Make sure you protect yourself, financially, legally, and physically (always have another adult present when he is around you). The fact that he doesn't mind his own child hearing him, tells me he is on the edge of something. Go dark, change the locks (he does not live there anymore, and he needs to phone and make an appointment before popping in to fetch anything, and this will give you time to get someone there with you - make note of what he takes, with your witness, and the value thereof).

Please, you will lose nothing by being cautious.