Ali--
We haven't "met," but Nikki posted, looking for encouragement for you right now. I am so sorry to hear you latest posts, especially after reading only from page 10...

Is your friend able to come to the house?

Was this episode brought on by alcohol?

There may be a crisis hotline in your area, even if it is only someone to talk to and refer you to any resources that might be available for you, and especially your daughter. In our area, we can call 211 InfoLine. Or contact the local ER or police station and ask if they have a number. Please mention your D talking about hurting herself--this might really be a medical emergency.

You seem to have been so strong for so long...hold on, for you and for her...

--D