It's good that you have experience & some knowledge on the do's & stay away from's. The fact that your W went to a DB counselor is a good sign I believe, b/c she has some of the same knowledge.
You prolly also know how tough it is to have patience, not pursue, etc.
Posting here is a huge help, along with doing some posting on other's threads. It helps reinforce some of the positive changes you'll have to make on your own.
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Why is she unwilling to admit anything about the OM? I told her if there is OM then let me know and I will let her go because I cannot deal with it.
I think you answered the question...she knows she would lose you & she's prolly not ready to make that decision yet.
As for when the month is over, decide what you want to do then, you might have different information & feelings then.
Sorry you find yourself here.
I'll check back in later. Meanwhile it wouldn't be a bad idea to read the books again to refresh your memory.
