I download the bank activity and see that he spent $1400 at Costco. I knew he was getting a bed (I thought they were around $500 for the queen size) but what was the rest?

He bought a bedroom set for it. Great. We had discussed that he would just get a cheapy frame from Ikea and if we weren't able to reconcile *I* would get the queen and he would keep the king.
I was miffed and basically said "great-now if we don't work out and I get the queen, I also get a bedroom set that I didn't pick out." >:(

His father is coming tomorrow to help him move. Luckily, I already have plans for a good portion of the day. I am none to happy with FIL.

H is very distant right now. Fine. Whatever. Just get your a$$ out of the house. He got a call on his cell and is all "hahaha yeah, thanks man, yeah hahahaha" and then hangs up and goes back to being grumpy. Good grief.


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing