As far as ignoring her almost completely, I am trying to lovingly detach, so she can see who I really am. For the most part I stay away from those confrontations, she isnt herself these days, seems to want get me in an argument.
Tomarrow she leaves on her trip to see om. Today my grandma passed away, w will not be attending so i get to explain her absince. Tonight was almost comical, d20 asked w why doesnt gf pick you up in our town instead of you driving, w made up excuse(more lies) meeting in next town droping car off.
Tomarrow I plan on going to work as normal, w leaves 2hours later. When she returns on 8-7 I will be at work. If I took off that day in the middle of the week to be gone while she returns I think would send the wrong message. I guess i'll come home as if nothing happened and let her come to me.
She did tell me she felt totaly guilty and was waiting for something bad to happen(grandma passing). Tonight w kids and I watched the collapsed bridge coverage in Minneapolis(Where w is suposidly going). She didnt say much, told s7 we dont normally drive on that bridge.
