I am now going through the hardest thing I have ever done. I have been married two years to the man of my dreams, BUT my dreams were shattered when i discovered he has been cheating on me. It was a one time thing and he has told me over and over how he hates what he has done...even before I found out he had totally reverted back to the man I first fell in love with. We had fallen into a slump and I knew it, but I had no idea it was that bad.....I started a new career ust s few short months ago, and he says he felt neglected and alone. But the ironic part to me is that he was the one to incourage me to follow my dreams of being an interior designer...he helped me go back to school to get my degree....now the thing he pushed so hard and stood behind me to accomplish...now he says is one of the reasons he strayed. I am very hurt, very disappointed and trying to cope. I love him very much and want tokeep this marriage together, any suggestions on how to deal with this built up anger that I am feeling ....I know lashing out at him will not help our relationship any...and I do not want revenge...I just want a little piece and harmony in my head

M 35
H 44
D 21,D 18,D 17, D 15, D 13, D 11, D 10, S 9
BOMB DROPPED 7/16/07
STILL TOGETHER, TRYING TO WORK IT OUT
H ENDED A WITH Ow 7/15/07