Hey nomo thanks for the response. Now today I did go visit one of the breathern of your profession. I did not steal any of his books..lol. Uhhh what does "auntlen" mean??? (pictures uncle lenny in aunties dress....lol)

To be honest, if I were to take a shot at where she was at......say I had to lay $1000 on which way she is at least leaning. She is not planning to continue our marriage. I am becomming more accepting of that way of thinking. Maybe I havent put any sort of feelers out on this, is because I was not yet ready to hear it, yet.

I think I am getting there, ready to accept whatever way this is going to go. I will survive. I will be ok.

G