Me and my girl went swimming in the lake for about 2 1/2 hours today. My o my, the uhhhh scenery down there was driving me somewhat nuts. We went out to dinner, then for ice cream. (which I couldnt really afford.......)
Right now she is decorating my living room with the popcorn she spilled. I love my daughter, but she does know how to try my patience at times. I hope she is sleeping in an hour.
As far as everything else goes. I need to give WAW some sort of answer on Friday about her list of things she plans on taking. I am going to let her know that I do not have a problem with the things on the list. Request of her a few things:
Card table and chairs that are at her sisters. The remote for the garage door. That she commits to a specific day for her "move" That she/they at least try not to leave me too big of a mess.
Also am still pondering.......we have had zero relationship talk since early may. It has been completely dark both ways on that for almost 3 months now. I want to somehow let her know, without pressuring, or even being to direct. But I do want to get across to her that I still consider the door still open. That I am still willing to work on things...... I guess get some sort of indication of where she is at.....something, anything......
After the dust settles for a week or 2 on her "move" then it will be time to open up some sort of dialoge on this house and financial aspects. I dont think any way I work this one that she will be happy about it... I still do wish for my marriage to work out, but I will damned if I am going to let all of this financially bury me.
Looking at this one way, I think that we have both been acting fairly well in respect of the best interest of our child. I think it could also be a big plus if this move goes off fairly smooth. At least some good will building is going on.
Cant hurt no matter which way this pans out. I am willing to be patient for some time yet. If I could get free of the financial crush, it would be a big relief for me. I know I could be patient for quite awhile longer if I didnt have to constantly worry about getting buried....
So that is where I am at....... well ....... at this moment at least. LOL Subject to change, at any time.
