Hope,
I'm sorry to hear this. Clearly your H does not have it in him to work on the M. It's too hard. He all but said that.

I know it was painful to hear after all the contact. My guess is that he really does miss you, but thinks that the reality of it all is that it would be jsut too hard to repair.

You are an amazing woman. You're kind and beautiful and you have lots of love to give. So, just remember that when you feel down. Any man would be luck to have you and your H knows that. I'm sure he is filled with so much regret.


Married 9 years
Kids 5 and 6
Bomb 2006
H back and forth for a year
M now back on track