would like some advice 2

[BestDadEver]

Hey LS,

I haven't posted here before, but I've been reading pretty regularly and I feel for you. I'm in a bad situation also, but my W's OM is local - a totally different situation. I've had some good results from "last resorting" I, too, live in a separate bedroom, but I only have one D3, so I'm not having to sneak around as much. Here's my advice (take it or leave it): I think you should ignore her almost completely. Let her approach you. Like me, you probably have a hard time holding your tongue (ie, the camera situation). I would ignore her and make her approach you. If she does so negatively, don't respond. If she does so positively or neutrally, respond politely some of the time, but also respond with indifference occasionally. I think that would give a lot of control back to you. Anyway, good luck.