Took a long time for my H to not care. I mean after they split he hated her not like he was wanting her back. So it took him awhile to get to the point that he just didn't care. She like your first wife had an affair and kicked him out.


W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07