Bob, Glad to see you that you and the kids are doing okay. As far as the custody issue goes, I would document everything, visits to and from wife, etc. I kept a a little daily planner in my purse (not that you carry a purse, ha), just keep it convenient. Write stuff down when you think about it, keep a journal of how you are feeling and kid are. It will keep you organized. Take Husband's advice and don't speak ill of your W in front of kids, I know it's hard to do, but it will work out for your favor. I don't think it's over for you and your wife yet. I think she will realize what she is missing. She will miss you and the kids. She'll get lonely.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon