Hi Fig,
I am just curious--I can't find a thread summary for you.

Tell more about circumstances?

How long did it take H to get here?

I have to say--enlisting MIL and others to contact you is, well, cowardly.

M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D