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What do you want? #1150078 08/01/07 11:49 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634 J Jeanette1120 OP Member
OP Jeanette1120 Member J Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634	Hi I thought I would post a thread on "us". After all, it is about us now. A good friend asked me the other night "What do I want now"?. Honestly, I had no answer. Of course all the usual things popped into my head....peace, stability, security, love and the weird worn NORMALCY....but that didn't really cover it. After two years of this, and the new drama that has entered into the chaos.....I have found it really hard to actually define what is it that I actually want. My career is better than ever....my son is doing "magnificent".....so now I am pondering this question posed to me.... I think it would be wonderful to see what is it that we, the LBS or Divorced person is now in search of..... $\:\)$ It is our time to shine....so let me read some wondeful things of what it is that we are looking forward to. Smooches to everyone Jeanetet Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us. Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice! :-)

Re: What do you want? Jeanette1120 #1150100 08/02/07 12:39 AM
Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,124 WA C cire2 Member
cire2 Member C Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,124 WA	Right now... a cold beer! I'll ponder that over the beer. cire Me 48 X's vary S 27 S 18 Back with high school sweety after 30 years..

Re: What do you want? cire2 #1150103 08/02/07 12:41 AM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634 J Jeanette1120 OP Member
OP Jeanette1120 Member J Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634	well geeeeeeeeez........i am pondering over wine!!! But I am trying to be serious. $;\)$ What do we want? Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us. Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice! :-)

Re: What do you want? Jeanette1120 #1150110 08/02/07 12:49 AM
Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,233 BC Canada L lawless Member
lawless Member L Joined: Oct 2006 Posts: 1,233 BC Canada	What do I want? Free beer! World peace! For STBXW to leave me out of the drama! Win a million bucks! Everything else I already have, good friends, family, my kids safe with me, and someone who actually gives a damn about me. A roof over my head and plenty to eat................. Actually things aren't all that bad for me now $;\)$ Me-LBS 40 Her-MLC/WAW 37 D-9 years S-9 years Dday 10/16/06 Sep- 10/22/06

Re: What do you want? lawless #1150112 08/02/07 12:51 AM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634 J Jeanette1120 OP Member
OP Jeanette1120 Member J Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634	Billy call me or send me an email with number Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us. Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice! :-)

Re: What do you want? Jeanette1120 #1150128 08/02/07 01:07 AM
Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071 F forward Member
forward Member F Joined: Nov 2006 Posts: 4,071	-I want D1 to have a happy childhood. -I want to consider changing careers and doing something to help others. I make good money but a lot of it has been in supporting H's ambitions and I want to do what I want to do now. I'd like to continue in my position for a while, get more comfortable in the role I am in and then think about doing something else. -I find myself wanting to write another book. -I want someone who wants to be with me. -I want companionship. M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D

Re: What do you want? forward #1150142 08/02/07 01:16 AM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634 J Jeanette1120 OP Member
OP Jeanette1120 Member J Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 6,634	Breton........that was beautiful. It wasn't full of the whacky bullshit. thank you for a sincere post!! Kudos girlfriend Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us. Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice! :-)

Re: What do you want? Jeanette1120 #1150167 08/02/07 01:40 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 34 S Sweetpea Member
Sweetpea Member S Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 34	I read something recently - nothing that happens to us hasn't first been passed through God's filter. I want what He wants for me because I know it will be the best! I want patience and wisdom I want to be available for others who are going through challenges like this I want understanding I want to be able to trust again. Sweetpea

Re: What do you want? Sweetpea #1150187 08/02/07 01:46 AM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,182 H hopefloats7 Member
hopefloats7 Member H Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 6,182	Sweetpea, All of that. Ditto. Thank you for posting it so well. Most of us really marry only once. First love endures, even unto our dying day. And we never really divorce.

Re: What do you want? hopefloats7 #1150262 08/02/07 02:34 AM
Joined: Apr 2004 Posts: 2,776 Midwest ANewMe Member
ANewMe Member Joined: Apr 2004 Posts: 2,776 Midwest	I am going to completely honest here. I want my H back, the real authentic H. I want my Master's degree without more student loans. I want to be able to hear the voice of the Lord telling me what He wants for me. I want my children to be happy. I want to be able to pay all of my bills every month. I want to be happy more than sad. Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.

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